Category Archives: adventures in aging

2018 Priorities and Shit

Holy shitballs it is 2018. I don’t do resolutions because I find the whole culture of that to be so shamey and gross. So instead let’s talk about priorities. So far, my number one priority in 2018 is getting the … Continue reading

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2017…..looking back.

2017 has been a giant trash fire. So….yeah nope. That said let’s talk about some of my favorite things. Skincare up first. *Most of these will be affiliate links, Auntie needs coins cause bitches gotta eat. Cleaners: L’Oreal Pure Clay … Continue reading

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The Smallest Indulgences

Hello loves. Today is fucking terrible so I’m gonna hit you with some cheap indulgences/mini reviews. Yes affiliate links are gonna be used. Don’t hate, appreciate. FIRST THING. I love a good wet shine gloss with or without shimmer. Some … Continue reading

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I am not an “after”-About Fatness

Folks who’ve known me for a long time to know my weight has fluctuated over the years. Recently someone had a looksy at some old outfit photos of mine and then emailed me to let me know how “proud” they are … Continue reading

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IT’S MY BIRFDAY!

Er it was my birthday yesterday. I’m officially 40 y’all. If you’d like to read a fbomb laden essay about how I feel about turning 40 click here. So let’s talk about some shit I don’t like. It appears my fave milky nude, sheer … Continue reading

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The time Betsy Johnson Broke My Heart

A site I like to window shop at sometimes sent me an email about a bunch of Betsy Johnson stuff on sale. Y’all don’t know this, but Betsy Johnson was the first designer I loved. When I was a lil post … Continue reading

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I See you 2017

Hello darlings. I hope this finds y’all well as you can be. Can we talk about 2017? I keep saying it, but I’ll say it again. I’m turning 40 this year. Holy damn. Let’s talk the Old Goth at 40. … Continue reading

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