Category Archives: be that shit

Revisiting Contextual Fatness.

Oh y’alls. I’ve seen at least five folks who don’t know each other talking about it, so let’s talk about it. We’re gonna talk about fatness, gatekeeping of fatness, why fatness is not a single thing or experience and why … Continue reading

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How not to Break Beauty.

Over at bookface, I ran across a post from the make up company Wet N Wild. Ahem. Note the brown skinned folks in some of the posts/photos. Love the idea of a lot of what they do. No cruelty, vegan … Continue reading

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Skin Care updates.

Hello darlings. Let’s talk about skin care today and the state of my skin and whatnot. For reference. I am 40 will be turning 41 in March. Very VERY oily skin that is prone to: Peeling Rashes Dehydration Major hyperpigmentation … Continue reading

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2018 Priorities and Shit

Holy shitballs it is 2018. I don’t do resolutions because I find the whole culture of that to be so shamey and gross. So instead let’s talk about priorities. So far, my number one priority in 2018 is getting the … Continue reading

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Friday Day Dreams and Deals

It’s Friday. I’m deeply relieved. So let’s talk about some stuff I’m daydreaming about and whatnots. Usual rules, amazon links will be affiliate links, Ebates available links will be asterisked, y’all know. The first thing I am daydreaming about being … Continue reading

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IT’S MY BIRFDAY!

Er it was my birthday yesterday. I’m officially 40 y’all. If you’d like to read a fbomb laden essay about how I feel about turning 40 click here. So let’s talk about some shit I don’t like. It appears my fave milky nude, sheer … Continue reading

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Why I wear Wigs.

If you want the short version, no I’m not trying to be White. I don’t hate my natural hair and bitch stop asking. Let’s rewind time and look back at the mid-late 80s. Yours truly was a lil baby potato and I … Continue reading

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