Category Archives: body politics

Too Fat For Life. CN: Eating disorder mentions, weight loss, trauma.

First story time. Once upon a time yours truly was a (as I thought then) super fat fat fatty teenager who was in fact too fat to live. A large part of why I felt this way included: I was … Continue reading

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Fat Bitch Feelings.

Recently after realizing that most of the clothing for Summer that I’d thrifted last fall (yes that is how I shop) is too big, I had to have a big long talk with myself. I had to tell myself that … Continue reading

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How to know if your body posi ain’t shit.

Welcome y’all. I have the urge and this is going to be about as body politics 101 as I get so pull up. This is your intro in how to know if your body positivity ain’t shit or if it is … Continue reading

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Why I wear Wigs.

If you want the short version, no I’m not trying to be White. I don’t hate my natural hair and bitch stop asking. Let’s rewind time and look back at the mid-late 80s. Yours truly was a lil baby potato and I … Continue reading

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The time Betsy Johnson Broke My Heart

A site I like to window shop at sometimes sent me an email about a bunch of Betsy Johnson stuff on sale. Y’all don’t know this, but Betsy Johnson was the first designer I loved. When I was a lil post … Continue reading

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Kind of Working it Out.

If you’ve been here a minute, y’all know I am not a cold weather person. I don’t fucks with winter. At. All. My goal for this winter has been comfort, warmth and dry feet. If you know me, you also … Continue reading

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File Under Musings: Possible Regrets?

If you’re interested in any of my writings about the election check here. I want to talk about something I had a great interest in and let kind of lapse. Burlesque. I’m watching a great documentary called Exposed about it … Continue reading

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