Category Archives: fashion

Goth it up on A Budget

Hello my darlings! Your fave Fine Ass Old Auntie returns. We’re going to be talking about clothing and accessories that are budget friendly AND easily Gothable. First a definition of terms. Gothable- an item that can go Goth with attitude, … Continue reading

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Wardrobe and stretchiness.

This upcoming move has given me the nudge I needed to really get to work on redoing my wardrobe. As an aging Goth, while my heart yearns for the fanciest of frills and tight lacing and leather and whatnot, reality … Continue reading

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Goth Thoughts- Anime villain Edition

Hello my loves. Let’s talk lewks. Lately a large part of my aesthetic is looking like a King Queerdo Chubby Anime Villain. Let’s talk about when you find a pair of awesome boots and ways to style it. Our theme … Continue reading

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Wigs, Wigs n Wigs- Balling on a budget

Inspired by a friend in need of info, I’m going to talk about having a bomb ass wig game on a budget. First, let’s dispell some stuff. Anything but human hair is terrible. Nah. Matter of fact, if you don’t … Continue reading

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Boots N Wishes

Hi y’all. The last two weeks of my life have been really awful. My partner is really sick and has been debilitated and unable to leave the house. We’ve been to the ER twice and then I got sick too. … Continue reading

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Goth Fantasist- Dream Summer Femme Edition

Welcome back my darling loves. I decided to change up how I do these posts and today, we’re going to talk the Femme Goth Fahion I would buy right now. A lot of what is on the pinboard that goes … Continue reading

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Stuff I’m Lowkey obsessed with.

Y’all, I HAVE to share because I cannot make myself stop. I’m going to throw links at y’all of stuff I’m pretty obsessed with as in, if money weren’t no thang….you know. First thing. I am obsessed with Chrome bags. … Continue reading

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IT’S MY BIRFDAY!

Er it was my birthday yesterday. I’m officially 40 y’all. If you’d like to read a fbomb laden essay about how I feel about turning 40 click here. So let’s talk about some shit I don’t like. It appears my fave milky nude, sheer … Continue reading

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The time Betsy Johnson Broke My Heart

A site I like to window shop at sometimes sent me an email about a bunch of Betsy Johnson stuff on sale. Y’all don’t know this, but Betsy Johnson was the first designer I loved. When I was a lil post … Continue reading

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Stuff what I’m thinkin about.

My transition to a daytime worker person is still ongoing. Today for the first time in months I’m wearing a dress and regular (non fleece) tights. I feel very cute. What flavor of cute though? I’m not spending much money … Continue reading

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