Category Archives: fatness

Too Fat For Life. CN: Eating disorder mentions, weight loss, trauma.

First story time. Once upon a time yours truly was a (as I thought then) super fat fat fatty teenager who was in fact too fat to live. A large part of why I felt this way included: I was … Continue reading

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Fat Bitch Feelings.

Recently after realizing that most of the clothing for Summer that I’d thrifted last fall (yes that is how I shop) is too big, I had to have a big long talk with myself. I had to tell myself that … Continue reading

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How to know if your body posi ain’t shit.

Welcome y’all. I have the urge and this is going to be about as body politics 101 as I get so pull up. This is your intro in how to know if your body positivity ain’t shit or if it is … Continue reading

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I am not an “after”-About Fatness

Folks who’ve known me for a long time to know my weight has fluctuated over the years. Recently someone had a looksy at some old outfit photos of mine and then emailed me to let me know how “proud” they are … Continue reading

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The time Betsy Johnson Broke My Heart

A site I like to window shop at sometimes sent me an email about a bunch of Betsy Johnson stuff on sale. Y’all don’t know this, but Betsy Johnson was the first designer I loved. When I was a lil post … Continue reading

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Where my Style evolved from.

I want to talk some about things that have shaped my style, representation and stuff. This is fashion, but shit is deep. From a really early age, my aesthetic love has been the Alt folks. I remember very vividly the … Continue reading

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What has been seen…Oh Dani no. CN: rape culture, anti fatness, patriarchy

Many of you may have seen around the internets today that Playboy model Dani Mathers  “accidentally” publicly snapchatted a naked women (who was unaware she was being filmed or watched) with the charming caption: If I can’t unsee this you can’t … Continue reading

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