Category Archives: Personal

Optimism among chaos.

Hello darlings. As the partner and I are settling into our new home I’m starting to have some optimism about an increase in our quality of lived life and by extension I’ve been thinking about things I want to do … Continue reading

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How not to Break Beauty.

Over at bookface, I ran across a post from the make up company Wet N Wild. Ahem. Note the brown skinned folks in some of the posts/photos. Love the idea of a lot of what they do. No cruelty, vegan … Continue reading

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Femme Files- Playing with my make up

Let’s talk beauty today my loves. One of the things I’ve learned about myself is that my love of make up is something that fulfills some very specific needs. It lets me play, when I was a baby potato I … Continue reading

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Life Makes Shit Hard

Hello frands. I’m currently ass deep in feels and stress so…stuff. I’m trying to find us a new place to live and it is so frustrating. If you’re new, I live in Seattle and the housing here is plentiful but … Continue reading

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Reasons why I am anxious.

Right now I have anxietied myself to near tears and lately apparently that’s what my brain is gonna do. So yes, hello your fave Auntie has some major anxiety problems and many of them have been life long. I’m working … Continue reading

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Live From the Dollar Store-CW: mental health, panic, shame spirals.

I am not literally at the dollar store right now but my heart is there. Lately, I’ve been doing a lot of work on identifying anxiety triggers. Part of me trying to deal with the reality of living with my … Continue reading

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Musings-Poverty trauma, exhaustion.

I’m experiencing one of my least faveĀ perimenopauseĀ things today. The Crushing Fatigue. I was fine and doing stuff and now I am not. I’ve been tracking a lot of stuff about my day to day life and I have one pattern … Continue reading

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